"Not Over You"

Okay, now I get that breakups are hard. I, more than any other person on the PLANET, knows this. Probably better than anyone else.

That being said, why the hell do I seem to handle breakups in a much more rational, less dramatic & healthy way? Why is it that nearly every single damn guy who dumps me, might I add, treats ME like the leper & fails to acknowledge my existence. Why are they the ones that get all "awkward" & treat me like I'm the one to blame for the relationship failing? Shouldn't it be the other way around?

I'm not exactly calling any specific guy out on this. But dammit, I go out of MY WAY to be nice to the "ex" who just ripped my heart out & crammed it in the dishwasher & put it on heavy wash. I never say a single bad thing about them & continue to be nice & hang out with their friends even! Wtf?

Please, try & explain this to me because I sure as hell am at a loss for words. How is it that when I'm the one dumped, when I'm the one who gets hurt, I'm treated like the bad guy?

I'm so over this. If you're not old enough to handle a breakup in a classy way, then maybe you shouldn't be dating. So stick that in your effing juice box & suck it long & hard.

xoxo
MegaShark